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Steps to being more disciplined in reaching your goals

As the old saying goes, if I had a dollar for every time I (fill in the blank).

If I had a dollar for every time a person I’m coaching told me he needed (and wanted) to be more disciplined in one area or the other.

Proverbs 10:17 in The Message, “The road to life is a disciplined life; ignore correction and you’re lost for good.”

Here is Michael Hyatt with five steps to develop more discipline!

Originally posted by Michael Hyatt

I have been thinking a lot about discipline lately. Everyone knows you can’t succeed without it, yet few people seem to possess it.

My friend Andy Andrews asks this question:

Can you make yourself do something you don’t want to do in order to get a result you really want?

If so, then you are disciplined—at least in that area.

The key is on focusing on a result you really want. In this sense, the key to discipline is goal-setting.

Over the years, I have found that I can become disciplined in any area of my life by taking five specific steps. Whether it is trying to get in shape, maintain a blog, or develop a great marriage, the psychology is the same.

1.  Determine your goal. Notice in Andy’s definition that the key is in knowing what you really want. If you are going to succeed, you must be specific. You must be able to see it. Write it down and—while you are at it—add a “by when” date.

Example: I will lose 20 pounds of body fat by December 31, 2011.

2.  List your reasons. This is often the missing piece in both goal-setting and discipline. You have to ask, Why is this goal important? What is at stake in my achieving it? I list both the positive reasons and the negative. Example:

  • I want more energy.

  • I want to lower my cholesterol.

  • I don’t want to put myself at risk for heart disease.

  • I want to look more trim, especially on video.

  • I want to demonstrate that I can lead myself.

  • I want to be a good example to my family.

3.  Identify likely obstacles. As soon as you start swimming against the current, you will start feeling resistance. It’s as if the universe conspires to keep you from succeeding. That’s why you have to anticipate these obstacles and build strategies to overcome them.


  • Obstacle: Mindlessly eating for lunch what I always eat. Strategy: Plan my lunch before I leave the house—where and what I will eat.

  • Obstacle: Inability to work out on the road. Strategy: Make sure the hotel has a workout room before I book it. Also, pack my workout clothes and shoes.

  • Obstacle: Eating more calories than I intend. Strategy: Record everything in LoseIt, thus educating myself about the calorie-count of various foods.

4.  Develop new behaviors. This is where you should focus. What are the positive, new behaviors you want to develop to replace the old, negative behaviors.


  • Drink two-and-a-half liters of water a day to stay hydrated.

  • Eat healthy snacks like raw almonds, celery, carrots, etc.

  • Share entrees with Gail when we eat out, so that I eat half the normal serving.

  • Chose simple grilled fish rather than beef or chicken.

5.  Stay focused. Read your goals daily, review your reasons why, anticipate obstacles, and work on your new behaviors. If you get off-track, don’t beat yourself up. Sometimes it is three steps forward and two steps back. Just shake it off and re-lock on your goal.

Discipline is not really about will-power so much as it is focusing on what you really want. If you get clear on that, it suddenly becomes much easier.




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