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The First Time I Was Asked This Question!

As I have been traveling around the country with my Leaders Who Last seminar. I have a Q&A time during each of the three sessions.  While in Warsaw, Indiana recently, I received a question I don’t think I have ever before been asked during a Q&A time.

What prompted the question was my mentioning something by A. W. Tozer that is on the first page I look at when I open up my prayer book each day.

“Anything God

Has ever done

At any time,

He can do NOW


“Anything God

Has ever done


He can do HERE


“Anything God

Has ever done

For anyone,

He can do for YOU”

A.W. Tozer

This quote by Tozer consistently challenges me to pray and think big because I serve an awesome and all-powerful Lord!

The question that I received was, “Would you please tell us about your prayer life?”  I shared a bit with them about what I pray and how I pray. I won’t go into everything here, but let me camp on one item. 

In my prayer book, I have one page devoted to things I pray for myself most every day. 

On this page is a list of four things I pray for myself and pay very close attention to (Proverbs 4:23, I Timothy 4:16).  I asked myself the question “If I was to ever disqualify myself and leave the race (see 1 Corinthians 9:24-27), what would the issue(s) be?” 

For me, here they are. For others, it may be an entirely different list:

1.  I pray for purity, and against lust

2.  I pray for humility, and against pride

3.  I pray for contentment, and against greed

4.  I pray for patience, and against anger

I am trusting the Holy Spirit of the living God to work deeply, significantly and lastingly as He builds purity, humility, contentment and patience into my life. It is my belief that more leaders fall over character issues than competency issues, so these four are character-based. And since character traits are usually displayed in the context of relationships, they touch, as well, on my personal relationships.

When I pray for purity, it’s not just sexual purity (as important as that is) in being faithful to Susan (my wife of 43 years) in thought and deed, but also purity of motive in ministry.

I can lust for power, position, accolades, etc. In His work through me, I want to explore the why beneath the what.  Why do I do what I do…what’s motivating me? Is it my kingdom or His kingdom I am building?  Not always easy to determine, but I want the Holy Spirit to search my heart (Psalm 139:23, 24).

Humility is pretty straight-forward.  Simply being the person God made me to be, no more and no less than this (Romans 12:3).

When it comes to contentment, I pray to be empowered to be content with:

  • Who I am (no comparing or competing, wishing I were someone else)
  • Where I am (not wishing I were somewhere else)
  • What I’m doing (not wishing I was doing something else)
  • What He’s doing through me (not jealous or envious of what He may be doing through someone else I know)

Patience:  Not being in too big a hurry (which I usually am) and not getting ahead of Him (which I usually do).

I love the song, “In His Time.”

In His time, in His time
He makes all things beautiful, in His time
Lord, please show me every day, as You’re teaching me Your way
That You do just what You say, in Your time

In Your time, in Your time
You make all things beautiful, in Your time
Lord, my life to You I bring, may each song I have to sing
Be to You a lovely thing, in Your time

Isaiah 55:8, 9 makes it clear that my ways and thoughts are not always His ways and thoughts. As I walk with Him, in my sinful nature and flawed perception, He seems to be walking awfully slow!

Of the four, the one that scares me the most is patience/anger.  I have sinned more in this area than any other. I have been angry with God and others when things were not going according to my time-table and liking. Each time it becomes clear, I repent, confess and ask for His forgiveness (and others).

How about you? What are a handful of issues that could be your undoing as a Christian and a leader? Why not write them down and pray regularly over them, asking for His mercy and grace to not be disqualified, but rather to finish well for His honor and glory.



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